Dear Mom,

How do you say goodbye to the person who has been there your entire life?

The person who loved you before anyone else did. The person who encouraged you, believed in you, protected you, and loved you fiercely and unconditionally.

My mother, Eleanor Elkalyoubie, was all of those things and so much more.

Born on January 24, 1954, she learned the secret to eternity on May 27, 2026.

To the world, she was a mother, a friend, a daughter, and a kind soul. To me, she was everything.

She was the hardest-working, most loving person I have ever known. I never wanted for anything because she always found a way to provide. Even when money was tight, she somehow made sure I had the toys I dreamed about, the experiences I wanted, and a childhood filled with love. Looking back, I understand now how many sacrifices were made behind the scenes so that I would never feel the weight she carried.

She gave me my love of classic rock, concerts, and so many of the things that still bring me joy today. More importantly, she taught me what it means to care deeply for others, to be loyal, and to show up for the people you love.

As I grew older, I made a promise to myself that I would take care of her the way she had always taken care of me. It was one of the greatest honors of my life to keep that promise. Through every challenge, every doctor's appointment, every difficult day, I was grateful for the chance to give back even a fraction of the love she had given me.

She was always proud of me. Interested in everything I was doing. My biggest supporter. And while I was blessed to call her my mother, I was equally blessed to call her my friend.

For as long as I can remember, she would always tell me, "Be careful."

And no matter how old I got, she always wanted to know the same thing:

"Did you eat?"

So, Mom, I promise you this:

I will be careful.

I will make sure I eat.

And I will carry your love, your lessons, and your memory with me every single day.

Thank you for every sacrifice you made.

Thank you for every lesson you taught.

Thank you for every moment of love you gave so freely.

I am everything I am because you loved me.

Rest easy, Mom.

I'll take it from here.

Love always,

Omar

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Smiles Fur Miles (Koda The Fluff) and Sojourn Project.