Patricia "Patti"

Shaffer

Patricia “Patti” Shaffer, 76, of Ormond Beach, Florida, gained her angel wings on November 7, 2026. She passed away peacefully in her home, surrounded by the love of her family. She leaves behind countless friendships, treasured memories, and a legacy that will live on through everyone fortunate enough to have known her.

Patti grew up in the charming small town of Freeport, Pennsylvania, in a loving home alongside her parents, Clyde and Betty Leri, and her four siblings. At just 18 years old, Patti embraced her adventurous spirit and left the comforts of her small town behind to begin a new chapter in sunny Florida. Little did she know that bold decision would set the stage for a lifetime of unforgettable experiences, lasting friendships, and endless opportunities to share her creativity with the world.

In 1973, Patti married Bill Shaffer, and together they were blessed with two daughters, Lacey and Noelle, who filled their lives with immeasurable love and joy. Although their marriage eventually took a different path, Patti and Bill remained close friends, a testament to the meaningful relationships she cherished throughout her life. Patti later found the love of her life in Dennis Wilson, whom she married in 2012. Together, they shared more than 14 wonderful years of love, companionship, laughter, adventure, and cherished memories.

To her grandchildren, who affectionately called her “MiMi,” Patti was nothing short of an “ICON.” They often described her as “iconic,” and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing her would certainly agree. With a fearless spirit and a zest for life, Patti was just as comfortable riding her Harley-Davidson as she was jumping out of an airplane. What made Patti truly iconic, however, went far beyond her fabulous style and creative talents. It was the way she embraced life, the joy she brought to others, and the unforgettable impression she left on everyone she met.

With her impeccable sense of style, love of fashion, and endless creativity, Patti had a gift for turning the ordinary into something extraordinary. Whether she was painting, crafting, decorating, or simply adding her signature touch to something that needed a little extra “ZHUZH,” she had an undeniable flair for bringing her visions to life.

Many in the Ormond Beach community knew and loved Patti through Granada Florist, the flower shop she owned and operated for 30 years. A beloved staple in the community, her shop was more than just a business; it was a place where her creativity flourished, friendships blossomed, and countless special occasions were made more memorable. Her artistic talents extended far beyond floral arrangements. Through her decorative painting business, “Plefaux,” Patti brought her signature style into homes and businesses throughout the community, leaving her personal touch on countless spaces.

Patti had an enormous heart and a truly selfless spirit. She was always thinking of others, never hesitating to offer a helping hand, a thoughtful gesture, or a little something extra to brighten someone’s day. She made friends wherever she went and had a special way of making everyone feel welcomed, appreciated, and loved. She truly had a gift for lighting up every room she entered, sometimes quite literally, depending on whether she had been given the opportunity to decorate it first.

Behind all the glamour and fabulous style was a woman whose greatest gift was the love she gave so freely. Her generosity, kindness, and genuine care for others were what made her truly unforgettable.

Patti was preceded in death by her loving parents, Clyde and Betty Leri.

She leaves behind her husband, Dennis Wilson; her daughters, Lacey Kokoskie (Josh) and Noelle Larson (Paul); her three beloved grandchildren, Madison, Maddox, and Joshua; her four siblings, Mike, Danny, Linda, and Susie; and countless family members and dear friends who will forever cherish the memories they shared with her.

Our world is a better place because Patti was in it, and it will never quite be the same without her. Yet her light will continue to shine through the family she loved, the friendships she nurtured, the beauty she created, and the countless lives she touched along the way.

Forever loved. Forever remembered. Forever our ICON.

Family and friends are warmly invited to join in honoring Patti’s life, sharing cherished memories, and celebrating the extraordinary woman she was.

A Mass Honoring Patti’s Life:

Friday, November 20, 2026 | 11:00 AM -12:00pm 

Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church 201 University Blvd Daytona Beach, FL

Celebration of Life:

Friday, November 20, 2026 | 12:30–3:30 PM 

FuGu 26 N Beach St Ormond Beach, FL

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in Patti’s memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

Donations may be made online at: https://www.stjude.org/donate/donate-to-st-jude.html